Something borrowed: January 2013

The schooling through harsh reality and actual experience to unspoken rules that govern friendships & bonds are really some of the worst experiences. A rule such as don't kiss & tell marshals discretion in whatever business. When a party mouth's off, its would be to her girlfriends being a mention of the degree of either extreme awesomeness or disappointment. The measure can be determined especially when she uses the matter as a bargaining chip to hurt an X boyfriend or make him jealous otherwise if bloody lousy then she would want the shame to disperse. In poetic justice, I go by the words of Kendrick & Drake ' I can never right my wrong unless I write them down for real.'
Another lesson emerges, women are complicated & bloody malicious with both degree of little care or extreme love & care.

The other lesson would be, when a man confides in another man about a relationship, they are either patting their chest in pride as it is puffed up( gorilla style) which would mean they find pleasure in bragging or the are confiding in a true friend almost similar to a brother. When that brother bond is mutilated and they go blabbing, it would be one of the most betrayal thoughts &moves.- Might be brought a long by either their disappointed in failure to get the girl, jealousy or pure malice & if that's the case then I term the guy as a ~~biatch niggah~~ in my books. The worst bit if the person is your blood brother meaning nothing can really be done but extreme disappointment.


(about to read the book)

Reverting back to a lesson, everyone has different shades & when you know them long enough, their true colours mostly the dark ones are the one that come out to the light, when that happens in a friendship or brotherhood survives then that is a relationship similar to the ring like in the " lord of rings" a beautiful & powerful bond.

quite poetic because they all brought a different element but true to their cause just as friends don't always have to fit but they by normal standards but they work

Jay z words - "Nigga see you in the street, pretend to be friendly / But I know any type of success breeds envy".
The December holiday has been an eye opener to several things, but one thing for sure making money, legitimate is satisfying & can go wrong or right just like anything.
"Love is cursed by monogamy" Kanye west words yet he's seems whipped by Kim kardashian. This new year has also seen me considering to go in a relationship road. Wont be changing my statuses to mushy mushy crap but its been a long time coming.
As of the ushering of the new year, I wouldn't have done any better. I was with friends who I consider as brothers. The theme was the movie 'TED' and saying a big 'F' to the Mayans prediction. The untouchables, power circle.
The title of the blog was building up to this......highlight reel of how the year 2012 ended and 2013 began.