Valz -Love Kenyan Design.

The beauty of falling in love is non like anyi other. While in that moment, it is unmatched to any other thing. All you crave is being in someone's embrace all the time everytime. Especially if its forbidden , or something that should happen or wouldn't be approved.
Now looking at indepth, my fellow Kenyans take this love buisness to a whole other definition. They have similar stages but its done in their own design. The wanting to be in someones company embrace is so hastily done that guys move in together. ( I get that we kenyan are quick to act hence the preference tk be employed over our neighboring eastafrican community among other detail).
As I sieze to digress.They hasten by moving in together and from the go it becomes a convinient arrangement( to be clear by convinient doesnt mean someone gets a free ride unless one party is obscenely well off which hardly happen unless sugar mami/daddi situations ). The unspoken arrangement is usually well balanced with man of the house obviously shouldering most of the bills but in an African fair way. Gerrit!.
The situation is mostly hastened especially if a baby is borne in the love (ahem) and expected to be brought to the very unfair world of ours expectant with great hopes & to enjoy what it offers fully if maybe you were tazan or littldmermaid.
The 'come we stay' bit is like a test ran to a maybe future which usually doesnt come in time. Its like a verification of compatability & not just because liveability is also a majot factor. On paper, Facebook twitter among friends you might be SI unit of a relationship and be the couple that finishes each others sentences. But when its behind closed doors one of the parties might be enraged by the significant other by just the mere way how they smear toothpaste.  One is used to squeezing from the bottom the other is used to heltascelta way of things. ( it happens ).
Often than not, or is often OR not tradition is actually upheld and the guy has to go bid to marry the lady by bribing the parents & what with what not but this is also catalyzed by expectation of a bandle of joy. Even if the marriage never happens the warning is already given and if they decide to go separate ways an amicable arrangement ( somehow) is made ( not verbally ofcourse ) but things usually workout. The child will be loved.  Most importantly.
Convinient arrangement in a nutshell and everyone gets to be happy. The couple seemingly have an open relationship.  There is a kin to both parties and a pair of granddads & grandmums are created. There is love and happiness to be shared  all around.
This is a definition to a true love story and happiness embodied by Valentine's.  Kenyan style.
Cheers blogosphere. 
Happy Valz.